女孩、长大了就要有個大人樣

1.转身，要比眼泪快。这是必须。过了20岁，你必须学会承担难过，你必须知道难过它会过。要经常对自己说，我也可以很勇敢。不要，千万不要，轻易在别人面前掉眼泪。别人看多了你的眼泪，就会觉得你的眼泪如此廉价。

2.你以前或许干过许多荒唐的事。可是请你不要觉得那有多见不得人。请你不要觉得那是负担。过了20岁，这是你生命中一个新的开始。

3.谁对你好，你就对谁好。人际交往永远是礼尚往来的。双向法则。没有人有义务对你好。过了20岁，擦亮眼睛，谁对你好，记得对他好。

4.明确自己的目标，为此奋斗。什么女子无才便是德，要嫁得好，首先要有才。而此处问题的关键，不是嫁得好。是你自己过得好。过了20岁，你要出国？找工作？还是继续学习？过了20岁，你离踏入社会已不远，你是否已做好准备？

5.答应自己的事情就要做到，该对自己狠的时候就要狠，切忌优柔寡断、藕断丝连。对自己心软，成不了大事。过了20岁，要学会面对现实，不能再整日沉浸于白日梦中。

6.如果你正在恋爱，请不要毫无保留地付出。你全盘托出了，拿什么留给你以后的老公？女孩子，要学会对自己好一点，别把所有的都投资在所谓的“潜力股”身上。无论什么时候，看清楚你自己手中留着什么底牌。

7.做人学会圆滑。过了20岁，别人不会再把你当小孩子，你的错误已不会再有人包容。对不喜欢的人和事面带笑容，是我们必须学会的恶心。

8.感谢所有伤害过你的人。然后在20岁生日的那天，对他们挥挥手，说声，我不再恨你们了。仇恨留在20岁以前的青春，你长大了，你要正视伤害。

9.别玩什么非主流。你又不是肥猪刘。还不如学着化化妆，不是烟熏妆，是大方得体的淡妆。一个大企业的面试官曾对我说过，一个化淡妆的女生，企业会优先考虑。为什么？因为你连自己的容貌都不着急，你会着急什么？世界上没有丑女人，只有懒女人。

10.减肥，说说就好。到你真的减到跟竹竿似的时候，你会发现低血压低血糖头晕目眩一系列疾病同时伴随你。说不好还有胃癌。过了20岁，你要知道，你以后的路还有很长，健康的身体是你走下去的保证。

11.对挑拨离间的人，不要揭发他。等他演完一出出好戏，拼命演，拼命圆。然后告诉他，其实你什么都知道。接着，笑笑，离开。

12. 是的，你已经达到法定婚龄了，可是你并不用着急着嫁人。或许你正在热恋，你们山盟海誓说要一辈子。可是你才刚过20岁，你不知道一辈子到底有多长。日子是 过出来的，不是想出来的。结婚，不是两个人的事情，是两个家庭的事情。老一辈讲的门当户对，并不是毫无道理的封建思想。结婚，你应该抱着一辈子只有一次的 信念，所以挑选的时候丝毫不得马虎。恋爱，就把它当成恋爱。结婚，慢慢来。

13.轰轰烈烈的爱情，留给一字头的年龄。你已经20岁了。别再做那些会被别人当做笑话的傻事。什么夜不归宿，当街吵架，以死相逼，一哭二闹三上吊。那些疯狂的事情，那些年少轻狂，我们经历过就够了。过了20岁了，学会淡定从容。

14.男朋友，宁缺毋滥。不要因为寂寞而恋爱，不要因为跟风而恋爱。过了20岁了，学会对自己的人生负责。

15.自己喜欢的东西，不要奢望别人买。20岁，不管你以前是否玩过暧昧，你已经过了暧昧的年龄。女人要独立，经济独立是基础。

16.如果一个男人对你说他配不上你，相信他。一个自己说配不上你的男人，一辈子也不会配得上你！珍惜与能力无关，与钱无关！

最后.随时给自己准备一个微笑

告诉自己 我可以！

Lesson 1#

Dont cry over a spilt milk :]

~Unforgettable Valentine's Day~

**Waiting for my boyfriend to come my house**

so long.... then I called him... He told me the traffic is very very jammed all the way to my house...

Wow... that time is around 1pm... it was lunch time... zzzzzz

I waited for almost 40 mins... Then he came. I feel happy... haha... The weather so hot and dry that day... I was sweating while waiting for him... lol.. can't wait to play the waterfall at the Secret Sanctuary... haha...

While I was making organic soyabean drink for him, suddenly he came to the kitchen and give me flowers and a valentine gift... I felt surprise when I opened the gift and - it was a diamond necklace ! I like it so much... ^^ Thanks my darling...

**Picture taking**

Around 2pm we had our lunch before going to Secret Sanctuary. We reached there around 2.40pm. The view there was very nice and so relaxing. Tropical garden decoration with the bamboo, wooden and some cultural sculptures... Those designs made us felt that we were in the place far away from the realistic... haha.. We really enjoy it... ^^

Our room is located upstair - tree house. After settling down, we wore swimsuit and went down to the waterfall to play... It was fun ! :D

We din't manage to try the jacuzzi there because one of the controlling button there is spoiled. :( So sad... Then we tried the steam room...

Jacuzzi

Steam room

Fish spa... we din't try this..

It was 5pm already, then we went to take a shower preparing for the valentine dinner...

After grooming, we took a lot of pictures together with the nice view and background there...

We went to Merdeka Palace at 7pm.. A friend of mine also went there to have dinner with her parents. Her dinner was at the Victoria Arms Restaurant while our dinner was at the Beccari Restaurant. It was a romantic candlelight dinner with soft piano music playing surrounding the environment... Thank you darling for doing this ^^

The menu

Tapas

Avocado salad

Mushroom soup with cheese and asparagus

We forgot to take pictures of the main course... :( because we have waited too long for it...

Cheese cake as dessert

*****Merdeka Palace Lobby*****

After we finish our dinner, we went to lobby and took some pictures together... hehe...

We went back to Secret Sanctuary. Whoa! so many people were eating there... lol... The business there was so good... That night, the boss there invited us to have some beers and we had a long chat with him and a chef. Almost 2.30am, we felt sleepy and went back to sleep...

It was raining heavily on the next day... Actually we planned to take a walk at the other themes there - bamboo garden, herbal garden and outside living. Sadly, the weather is not allowing... So, we just took a shower and packed our clothes and stuffs preparing to check out... Still raining non-stop... We had our lunch before went home... We had a fun and romantic plans to celebrate our first valentine's day this year... It was perfect and unforgettable ! :D

By Michelle

Feeling Excited

Woooo..... Tomorrow is Valentine Day..... I feel excited...

This is the first Valentine Day with my boyfriend.... He wanted to make it perfect and unforgettable....

So, we will be going to Merdeka Palace to have our candlelight dinner at night... ^^

The price is around RM 200+ ...

I will be wearing a nice dress... It's been a long while I din't wear that dress... finally can wear it again... hehe....

After dinner we will go to Secret Sanctuary to have a 2 days 1 night trip to relax and play the facilities there...

The price is also RM200+...

I never been there before although it's just located not far away...

I saw many blogs mentioned about the fun stuff there like the indoor pool, gym, sauna, fish spa, steam room and garden bath tub....

WOW.... I really wanna try all these facilities.... haha... :D

and there are different themes of the rooms there.... This has attracted me alot....

I like the waterfall theme the most... so we have booked the room earlier...

We booked the room which located at the tree house... I haven't seen it... feeling curious about the view and the design there... :)

This year valentine really waste a lot of money.... lol....

but we have agreed to have a simple valentine plans for the following years...

The first valentine will be the most perfect and full of romance.... ^^

It will be unforgettable.... :)

I'm looking forward the Valentine day.... *Excited* :D

By Michelle

To every Couple ^^

Wish u guys hav a sweet and wonderful Valentine day :)

hav fun ~
<3